People use affirmations for different purposes. Some of us use them to program our mind to believe certain things, in order to attract and create the reality we desire.
For example, some of us tell ourselves, “Every day and in every way I am getting better and better.” Or: “ I love myself and attract to myself all the blessings and abundance of the universe.”
There is value in affirmations of this nature. Our subconscious mind plays a major role in the actualization of our lives. What we believe about ourselves at a subconscious level can have a significant impact on the outcome of events.
When we feel good about ourselves and have a positive attitude, our lives tend to run more smoothly, with fewer obstacles, with less chaos and drama, and with greater cooperation and support from others. Read the rest of this entry »




We have the desire to help our loved ones. Seeing clearly the things they are doing that are self-destructive and self-sabotaging, that are getting in the way of their health, happiness and success, we try to enlighten them and guide them to make better choices.
When we meet someone new, our desire for connection and companionship can be very powerful, to the point of our overlooking potential red flags and plowing forward, full steam ahead.
We are all functionally flexible to some degree. If we don’t have a screwdriver and we are in desperate need of one, we will look at a knife but not see a knife. We’ll see a screwdriver. Sort of.